Hi.Took a break from xh for a few months. Re-assessed my sexual priorities. I was also on a gay dating site but I was overwhelmed with possible meets and the tail was wagging the dog. I used to be self-employed which gave me endless opportunities for liaisons. I had four meaningful gay relationships ( one turned v. toxic) and hundreds of brief encounters. When I retired those opportunities diminished dramatically. When I reached 70 ( I am now 73 )I realised that I was getting tired of playing to other people’s tunes although I stayed on the dating site. I came to realise that the time and effo Read more